<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717</id><updated>2012-02-16T23:10:10.174+01:00</updated><category term='Aba Jang'/><category term='Life'/><category term='Passion'/><category term='Travel'/><category term='Love'/><category term='Books'/><title type='text'>Hope. LiFE. PasSiON. LovE</title><subtitle type='html'>A lost in translation version...</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>43</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-3954642227240352790</id><published>2012-01-28T20:47:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2012-01-28T21:15:26.569+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>Je suis perdu!!</title><summary type='text'>It means I'm lost...

Let me tell you my misadventure of looking for La Poste office.
Ok, La Poste is the local post office here in France and I was expecting my parcels to arrive from Malaysia. I've got some important books (more french books) and papers that I needed.  Anyway, most of the time, as my friend told me, the parcels are sent directly to the residence's office by the postman and then</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/3954642227240352790/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=3954642227240352790' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3954642227240352790'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3954642227240352790'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2012/01/je-suis-perdu.html' title='Je suis perdu!!'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-oNBdagsuoR0/TyRPsrmltvI/AAAAAAAAAcA/JcnsJvlAc0s/s72-c/Photo+on+1-28-12+at+7.47+PM.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-3570124577946477376</id><published>2012-01-15T19:50:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2012-01-15T19:51:37.896+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>Fuh..fuh....dusting off my blog</title><summary type='text'>Hey it's 2012!jeezzzzz...it's been a while (very long while) since I laid my hands on you, Mr blog. I guess, I'm now bored and living alone abroad. Did I say abroad? yeah... gonna do my last stage of degree, PhD my man!

Alright, enough of that. It's exactly 11 days in Grenoble, France. So far, I'm confused over many things. Blame it on not understanding the language. I regretted not paying </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/3570124577946477376/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=3570124577946477376' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3570124577946477376'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3570124577946477376'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2012/01/fuhfuhdusting-off-my-blog.html' title='Fuh..fuh....dusting off my blog'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-cJx8PcRYMfQ/TxMfxMvBwbI/AAAAAAAAAbs/shjCaCPTJWw/s72-c/Photo+on+1-15-12+at+6.35+PM.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-217869379732266685</id><published>2010-04-28T14:00:00.001+02:00</published><updated>2010-04-28T14:03:28.759+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>Stop trying to have everything go your way. That's not how life works.</title><summary type='text'>There are so many things in life (almost 29 years of my life) in which I thought I could control. I determine my own future, I determine my hopes and I determine my dreams. But, after analyzing my past....
When I was 7 years old, my ambition was to be an architect (even I didn't even know what is an architect..the word sounds bombastic at that time when my teacher asked me what i wanted to be </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/217869379732266685/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=217869379732266685' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/217869379732266685'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/217869379732266685'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/04/stop-trying-to-have-everything-go-your.html' title='Stop trying to have everything go your way. That&apos;s not how life works.'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7191059404991062262</id><published>2010-03-14T08:28:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-03-14T08:35:45.655+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Gam Hutan's quote</title><summary type='text'>Something to ponder...
"Life is like a durian...all thorny but smells great. Once cracked open with all the pain left on the fingers, if you're lucky, you'll get good biji...if not, you'll get bad biji..when you get bad biji, you just have to get rid of the durian and move on to the next durian to try you're luck again."
Yesterday morning, I woke up and thought about Forrest Gump's quote in the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7191059404991062262/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7191059404991062262' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7191059404991062262'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7191059404991062262'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/03/gam-hutans-quote.html' title='Gam Hutan&apos;s quote'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-2922032309274856541</id><published>2010-02-16T05:35:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2010-02-16T05:36:14.361+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus</title><summary type='text'>I was suggested by someone to read the Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus by John Gray. I googled on this book and I was laughing my head off when I read some notes of the book. See if you are ...

The point systemGray suggests that men and women count (or score) the giving and receiving of love differently. Men tend to give larger blocks of points (20, 30, 40 points etc.) for what they </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/2922032309274856541/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=2922032309274856541' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/2922032309274856541'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/2922032309274856541'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/02/men-are-from-mars-and-women-are-from.html' title='Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-8009568572398910583</id><published>2010-02-12T05:28:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2010-02-12T05:28:18.089+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>:'(</title><summary type='text'>Drops of tears rolling down my cheeks...
Tried to stop them..but, I can't because I'm too weak...
I tried not to think...but, I can't because...I don't know why..

I wished I could've been a better person...
and learn to be more understanding...
and not to be selfish...

I guess it's now too late to turn back the clock...
of what I have done..
and now this is the price I have to pay...

These </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/8009568572398910583/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=8009568572398910583' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8009568572398910583'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8009568572398910583'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/02/blog-post.html' title=':&apos;('/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6491053661840891454</id><published>2010-02-11T16:08:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2010-02-11T16:08:59.352+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Today...</title><summary type='text'>I have done something wrong...

Now, hope time will heal.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6491053661840891454/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6491053661840891454' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6491053661840891454'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6491053661840891454'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/02/today.html' title='Today...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-8600499767394808249</id><published>2010-01-05T08:07:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2010-01-06T01:30:05.402+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Forgetting the past and looking forward for the future</title><summary type='text'>Dear dear...how time flies (and age increasing, yikes)

2009...

A year full of many events happened in my plain life.

Sorrow, joy, happiness, heartache...full package all in one.

January 2009...emotionally recuperating after the death of Aba Jang...beloved son, brother, uncle and granduncle to the family.

February 2009...most favourite Grandma, laid to rest. Though she is gone, she is never </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/8600499767394808249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=8600499767394808249' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8600499767394808249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8600499767394808249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2010/01/forgetting-past-and-looking-forward-for.html' title='Forgetting the past and looking forward for the future'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-3394287664054853060</id><published>2009-12-28T13:43:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-12-28T13:43:52.900+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Goodbye holiday...hello work..</title><summary type='text'>Tomorrow is the beginning of the new semester.

Which means..back to work.

Lecture, research, mark, counsel, admin work, cycle starts again.

I want more breaks...:( Sorry friends, if I didn't reply any work emails. I just need a break.

Haishh....

Think positive of the things need to be done at work...

New Year is coming soon in exactly...4 more days!

need to write out my new resolutions! </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/3394287664054853060/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=3394287664054853060' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3394287664054853060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3394287664054853060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/12/goodbye-holidayhello-work.html' title='Goodbye holiday...hello work..'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7746477583793637786</id><published>2009-12-21T18:02:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2009-12-22T07:55:03.613+01:00</updated><title type='text'>A Christmas Tree and a dog called Primo</title><summary type='text'>Today is the most exciting day of the week..ok, the week just started, exaggerated a bit.

My leave starts today until Christmas day (only..) and maybe I will extend til Monday. Anyway, this morning I finally put up my Christmas tree!!!!yeah!!!!! With Sydney just next to me, I decorated my tree with silver ornaments + gold leaves + some other colourful ornaments. I put two coffee tables together </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7746477583793637786/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7746477583793637786' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7746477583793637786'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7746477583793637786'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/12/christmas-tree-and-dog-called-primo.html' title='A Christmas Tree and a dog called Primo'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-1431917432026886554</id><published>2009-12-19T15:56:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2009-12-19T15:56:28.177+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Letting it all out...</title><summary type='text'>Haven't been able to blog for a while...been busy..and having a mental block over some work.

Have you ever been in a situation that you always think about unnecessary stuff in which resulted you cause someone or people to get so worried?

Have you ever been so insecure about your life that you wished that your friends or family would never go away?

Have you ever wished that your life is like a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/1431917432026886554/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=1431917432026886554' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1431917432026886554'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1431917432026886554'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/12/letting-it-all-out.html' title='Letting it all out...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7010496669119523200</id><published>2009-10-08T13:13:00.001+02:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T15:09:33.145+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>My day in the US embassy Kuala Lumpur</title><summary type='text'>Had my US visa interview today...and I passed it and need to collect the visa and my passport tomorrow. (yey!!)

 After delaying for weeks to settle my visa, finally I got it and I thought it was tough to get through the interview. I was prepared, alright..paid my visa fee (twice!!please don't ask me why...sob sob...), prepared all the necessary documents, which despite all the preparation, the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7010496669119523200/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7010496669119523200' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7010496669119523200'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7010496669119523200'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/10/my-day-in-us-embassy-kuala-lumpur.html' title='My day in the US embassy Kuala Lumpur'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-5120870484755232791</id><published>2009-09-17T16:36:00.005+02:00</published><updated>2009-09-18T03:33:13.183+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>Fell out and in....LOVE</title><summary type='text'>I fell out of love for someone whom I thought I would end up marrying,  a few months ago. Well, the relationship was already rocky for quite sometime already. I just didn't have the courage to end it much earlier and neither did he. But, you just knew something wasn't right when you start to push yourself to understand the other person, where as, you forgot to understand your own self...about </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/5120870484755232791/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=5120870484755232791' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5120870484755232791'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5120870484755232791'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/09/fell-out-and-inlove.html' title='Fell out and in....LOVE'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7638527378779524002</id><published>2009-08-12T16:43:00.001+02:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T10:35:55.661+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>Venice....MY city of love ---}--&lt;@</title><summary type='text'>I haven't finish my Europe tour report, ok? Here goes...Venice, Italy. (Italian music in the background)I fell in love with this city, immediately...The buildings were unique. You feel as if you are in a romantic movie (except that you're traveling with your friend.heheh...sorry Pame). Every picture you take is beautiful. People are smiling and enjoying themselves. Okay, enough about that...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7638527378779524002/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7638527378779524002' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7638527378779524002'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7638527378779524002'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/07/venicemy-city-of-love.html' title='Venice....MY city of love ---}--&lt;@'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SmMy5b3pLUI/AAAAAAAAAXI/tqrQFq6d6dk/s72-c/DSC_0886.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-890023670713199219</id><published>2009-08-10T15:13:00.007+02:00</published><updated>2009-08-10T16:36:59.941+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>What is wrong or right being single again?</title><summary type='text'>I wrote a list of signs of getting older before and I just thought maybe I should try to answer that question. (Read my 20 Signs of you're getting older) So, here goes...1.  You will feel lonely. No calls....no hugs...no yang lain-lain lah.2.  When you hear the song "You make me feel like a natural woman" by Aretha Franklin, you will feel like throwing the mp3 player to the wall.3.  Your phone </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/890023670713199219/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=890023670713199219' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/890023670713199219'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/890023670713199219'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/08/what-is-wrong-or-right-being-single.html' title='What is wrong or right being single again?'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-1675974469601546857</id><published>2009-08-09T01:43:00.001+02:00</published><updated>2009-08-09T02:02:48.774+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Love'/><title type='text'>A very sad drama</title><summary type='text'>I watched a sad drama the other day. The story goes like this...  Sam was a girl who just got out of a very long relationship after she fell out of love... and to heal from the pain she focused on her work. She did every task given to her so that she could forget her past and move on with her life.  One fine day, she noticed a guy named George. George was a funny guy who liked to crack jokes to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/1675974469601546857/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=1675974469601546857' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1675974469601546857'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1675974469601546857'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/08/very-sad-drama.html' title='A very sad drama'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6116525010315881747</id><published>2009-07-18T01:44:00.007+02:00</published><updated>2009-07-18T16:53:19.492+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>Ole...Barcelona</title><summary type='text'>Welcome to Barcelona...one of the famous cities in Spain. One of the non-English speaking cities in the world.yeah....had trouble to communicate with people here.This is Catalunya. The city centre or, the heart of the city.Same like the cat statues near Riverside Majestic lah..Anyway, this was where Pame and I waited for her friend....erm..what's his name...s&amp;$t.It's been a while, and my memory </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6116525010315881747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6116525010315881747' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6116525010315881747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6116525010315881747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/07/olebarcelona.html' title='Ole...Barcelona'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SmEeJwCxooI/AAAAAAAAAVw/l5GPB3d3YTs/s72-c/DSC_0410.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7425440191542460490</id><published>2009-07-11T11:31:00.006+02:00</published><updated>2009-07-18T16:54:25.389+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>My trip to Oxford City</title><summary type='text'>Ok....I'm back...After CITA'09 last week, I can say now I'm a bit relaxed. So, off to blogging and continue with my report on my Euro trip.In the bus to Oxford City. We almost missed the bus because in the itinerary did not state exactly which bus stop we should go to. Luckily we arrived early for the day. I had to run with my very hot, hot chocolate cup in my hands to get to the bus stop. But, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7425440191542460490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7425440191542460490' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7425440191542460490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7425440191542460490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/07/my-trip-to-oxford-city.html' title='My trip to Oxford City'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/Slhb-roJI-I/AAAAAAAAAUA/XI1gc7bYY4w/s72-c/DSC_0218.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-4322716207432415144</id><published>2009-06-06T16:56:00.008+02:00</published><updated>2009-07-18T18:52:26.107+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>My first time in London.</title><summary type='text'>We arrived hrmm..I can't recall what time in Heathrow Airport.The airportt was quite pack with people. I was a bit scared bout the swine flu and everything but thank God I'm ok.So, I called up Diane and confirmed with her the directions to her house. It was easy to get to her house. We took the train and hopped on the Picadilly line train. On normal days the journey would take about an hour to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/4322716207432415144/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=4322716207432415144' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4322716207432415144'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4322716207432415144'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/06/my-first-time-in-london.html' title='My first time in London.'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SiqGTUyBwwI/AAAAAAAAASg/wulwNsY0QS8/s72-c/diane%27s+place.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-8943190344248918853</id><published>2009-06-06T16:49:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2009-06-06T16:56:40.424+02:00</updated><title type='text'>I am fully recovered from my two weeks holiday</title><summary type='text'>Huaaaaaaa (yawn)...I know...I know...I'm not a good blogger.Work took up most of my time and by the time I reach home, I was too tired to switch on my lappy  (that's what I heard people call their laptops these days) or my PC.ANYWAY, I had spent my holiday with a very close friend of mine, Pame, to Europe. We covered London, Barcelona, Venice and Paris. For those who has me as their Facebook </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/8943190344248918853/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=8943190344248918853' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8943190344248918853'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8943190344248918853'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/06/i-am-fully-recovered-from-my-two-weeks.html' title='I am fully recovered from my two weeks holiday'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-4424645888543833837</id><published>2009-04-25T16:05:00.013+02:00</published><updated>2009-04-25T18:23:02.781+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>A trip to Bario : Day One</title><summary type='text'>I just got back from Bario. Actually, came back on Thursday.hehehe.. And now I'm already at home, telling you my experience in this lovely place, far from traffic jam, stress and rowdy people on the road.Ok...now about Bario....Google it. You'll find lots of information on the place, ok, ok..here, find it in eBario . Now, about my trip. There were 7 of us in the trip. Dr Alvin, Dr Tan, Sharin, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/4424645888543833837/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=4424645888543833837' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4424645888543833837'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4424645888543833837'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/04/trip-to-bario-day-one.html' title='A trip to Bario : Day One'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SfMLKez6kBI/AAAAAAAAANk/JqZ2tWU2Snc/s72-c/DSC03500.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7683100769221145974</id><published>2009-04-17T11:50:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2009-04-17T12:13:23.104+02:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm still in the office *%&amp;#*!@</title><summary type='text'>It is now 5.47 pm based on my computer clock.I'm still in the office. Doing work. Two proposals to complete and submit. F&amp;*^k&amp;*g internet connection is so slow. I need to get one of the proposals done and submitted before I leave...thanks to one person,argh...I'm so angry.I can't wait for my long trip to Europe..really, I can't. I wish I can go tomorrow, or today!Now it's 6.03pm and tomorrow I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7683100769221145974/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7683100769221145974' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7683100769221145974'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7683100769221145974'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-still-in-office.html' title='I&amp;#39;m still in the office *%&amp;amp;#*!@'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-1173057739640744029</id><published>2009-04-11T03:35:00.004+02:00</published><updated>2009-04-12T17:01:46.687+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>I heart chick novels :  How to sleep with a movie star</title><summary type='text'>I have to admit...I love chick novels.. sigh..judge me however you want.Last night I slept at 3am to finish How to Sleep with a Movie Star by Kristin Harmel. Hey, I didn't buy the book, o-k, I got the book as a christmas present. Yes, the book is about how this girl called Claire, a senior editor of a celebrity's magazine ended up sleeping with the hottest movie star in Hollywood. It's not a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/1173057739640744029/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=1173057739640744029' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1173057739640744029'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1173057739640744029'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/04/i-heart-chick-novels-how-to-sleep-with.html' title='I heart chick novels :  How to sleep with a movie star'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-8953120165683627976</id><published>2009-04-01T17:36:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2009-04-01T18:48:55.309+02:00</updated><title type='text'>Happy April Fool's day!</title><summary type='text'>eermmm...dunno what to say..Been too busy to update this space again. I've got three things to settle by this week and I wish I can clone myself this instance so that I will have two..no, three wonderful brains to complete the things I have to do.  I even can't think of any joke to humour myself today...sigh... I think I need a "You got Punk'd"  to release my stress. No, wait. I have four things </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/8953120165683627976/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=8953120165683627976' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8953120165683627976'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8953120165683627976'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/04/happy-april-fools-day.html' title='Happy April Fool&apos;s day!'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-4959862105985478584</id><published>2009-03-29T18:15:00.005+02:00</published><updated>2009-03-29T19:09:07.203+02:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>One of a kind</title><summary type='text'>Dear Aba Jang,We came by to visit you this afternoon. We could see you from afar when we reached your place. The Orange County motorbike logo was so obvious from far. If you could see this right now, I'm sure you'll be proud of it.It was sunny and not so windy. Maybe you knew we were coming to visit you. Oh, Serene gave you a present from JB. She bought you a wooden miniature Harley for you. She </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/4959862105985478584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=4959862105985478584' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4959862105985478584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/4959862105985478584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/his-tombstone.html' title='One of a kind'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/Sc-is04uYMI/AAAAAAAAAM8/b88Rig0hn2s/s72-c/tombstone.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-707172175446234610</id><published>2009-03-26T15:46:00.008+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T16:41:34.049+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Passion'/><title type='text'>I have achieved something today!</title><summary type='text'>This morning, I woke up earlier than I ever did before and EXERCISED!!HAHAHAHAHAHA...I've been meaning to do this for the past few weeks, but, snoozing my handphone using one finger and one eye open has become a routine everyday.Last night I slept at Lila's place in KS. She woke up early coz she needed to get ready for her class at 8am. Lila is the type that doesn't like to see people having a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/707172175446234610/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=707172175446234610' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/707172175446234610'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/707172175446234610'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-have-achieved-something-today.html' title='I have achieved something today!'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7866178751277800643</id><published>2009-03-22T04:47:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-22T05:24:05.514+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>and yet another graduation...</title><summary type='text'> I completed my Postgraduate Diploma in Teaching and Learning which was offered by my office for people like me who just completed their posgraduate degree then, dunno how to teach university students. At first, the course was to be one of the requirements to get confirmed, so I dutifully enroled myself. Then, after I went through two modules, my office announced that they no longer require that </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7866178751277800643/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7866178751277800643' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7866178751277800643'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7866178751277800643'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/and-yet-another-graduation.html' title='and yet another graduation...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6808347531967088262</id><published>2009-03-18T16:15:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-18T17:00:34.503+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>I hate traffic jam!</title><summary type='text'>Last night, I drove back home quite late around 6.45pm. Traffic was okay along KS road until I reached BDC. I went in Sherip Masahor road (the one going to Hui Sing from BDC roundabout), I saw the two lanes packed with cars.EEkkkssss...First thing crossed my mind, accident kah? And so I stopped behind this red kenari. Cars moved very slow in front, so, it's either I use 1st gear or second gear. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6808347531967088262/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6808347531967088262' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6808347531967088262'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6808347531967088262'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/i-hate-traffic-jam.html' title='I hate traffic jam!'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-63321415827191449</id><published>2009-03-14T11:27:00.009+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T12:45:45.616+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Sindy's wedding</title><summary type='text'>Here comes the bride..te..te...tedaa...Sindy got married on the 21 February 2009. Finally...someone from the family broke the 'single' curse. It's a stupid joke we always played around in the family.The wedding was wonderful. It was bright and sunny, and the bride and bridesmaid were late for the church wedding. Blame it on the bridal owner.  She was late for almost an hour to do our make up. Oh </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/63321415827191449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=63321415827191449' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/63321415827191449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/63321415827191449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/sindys-wedding.html' title='Sindy&apos;s wedding'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SbuKq8y6xII/AAAAAAAAALo/ymU9x_QK4rA/s72-c/sindywedding.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6576300418062498084</id><published>2009-03-14T10:58:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T11:20:56.977+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Passion'/><title type='text'>Here comes Rambo...</title><summary type='text'>Everybody knows Rambo.But do you know this fella?His name is Rambo, too. He's a very fierce fella. Watch out coz he bites..he bites towels, slippers, plants - whatever is in front of him. He's 6 months old today and yet his only 10 inches tall.He lives with Lila in KS. Supposed to be a watch dog...sigh..he's adorable and small, I don't know whether he can do his job well. But he barks very loud </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6576300418062498084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6576300418062498084' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6576300418062498084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6576300418062498084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/here-comes-rambo.html' title='Here comes Rambo...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SbuAoio0TAI/AAAAAAAAALY/17EuW2nnGEU/s72-c/rambo.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6531156935002260379</id><published>2009-03-14T10:38:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T10:58:33.102+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm back...</title><summary type='text'>Yes..I've been neglecting this space of mine for approximately 1 month. There are reasons to this..One. didn't feel like writing...Two. workload..hmm...who doesn't have?even housewives do.Three. busy preparing for my sis' wedding.Four. i need to pimp my blog before i write. i lost my previous setting (o-on's gonna kill me). so, this is my new design :) sikda apa-apa sebenarnya.heheheh... just </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6531156935002260379/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6531156935002260379' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6531156935002260379'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6531156935002260379'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/03/im-back.html' title='I&apos;m back...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-519541483478089546</id><published>2009-02-13T16:13:00.010+01:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T08:00:24.668+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>I'll miss her...</title><summary type='text'>Thank you for reading my blog. If you have read all my posts, you may think that this blog is a very sad blog. Talking about death, life after death and then another death. I feel sorry for you if you think that way. I wished I could write happy things every day, really I do. But, these past few months were challenging to me and my family. Only God knows how I'm feeling right now.Heart is broken </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/519541483478089546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=519541483478089546' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/519541483478089546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/519541483478089546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/02/thank-you-for-reading-my-blog.html' title='I&apos;ll miss her...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-5116307220947513877</id><published>2009-02-09T05:02:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-02-10T04:22:17.635+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>A beautiful flower laid to rest</title><summary type='text'>5th February 2009...9.10pm...Flora Umpang Linang ~14 April 1917 - 5 February 2009 ~Inik Tana died in her room at her home. She was 91 years old and was bedridden for two years. Another death, another heartbreak for the family. I knew she will leave soon, but I never knew that her death will leave another terrible, emotional scar in me.I need few more days to recover. I'll write about this </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/5116307220947513877/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=5116307220947513877' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5116307220947513877'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5116307220947513877'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/02/5th-february-2009.html' title='A beautiful flower laid to rest'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-1919160320611900758</id><published>2009-02-01T17:18:00.008+01:00</published><updated>2009-02-02T02:44:28.656+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>40th day after ...</title><summary type='text'> Today is Aba Jang's 40th day after he left us. Yesterday, a few of us went to the Anglican cemetery in Batu Kitang to lit up candles for him. Though it was raining the whole day, we decided to carry on with our plan to go there. We arrived at the cemetery around 3.30pm and there were quite a number of cars parked along the road. Must be a funeral.  It was cold and wet out there, luckily I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/1919160320611900758/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=1919160320611900758' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1919160320611900758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1919160320611900758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/02/40th-day-after.html' title='40th day after ...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SYXRZ_gE6rI/AAAAAAAAAKk/aKAtGHhQfro/s72-c/abajang404.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-8537017667745982136</id><published>2009-01-29T07:18:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-29T10:27:16.510+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>20 Signs you're getting older</title><summary type='text'>I thought about 20 signs that show I'm getting older while I was waiting for the clock to strike 7 this morning when I was on the bed.1. I listen to Mix FM. I can't have too much of Avril Lavigne, Sum41 in Hitz FM.2. I bought myself kitchen utensils, like Corelle plates, Tupperware containers..oh no, I'm listing all the brands!3. My car's radio volume is only between 7 to 10.(max is 20, I think)4</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/8537017667745982136/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=8537017667745982136' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8537017667745982136'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/8537017667745982136'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/20-signs-youre-getting-older.html' title='20 Signs you&apos;re getting older'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-918804053476464075</id><published>2009-01-25T18:47:00.012+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-26T09:38:49.463+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Passion'/><title type='text'>Music is my life...my soul..my life ..k, said it twice already.</title><summary type='text'>Alo again..I know..been a while since my last entry. Since today is Chinese New Year and today is also officially public holiday and it is 1.49 am, I'll write something.So sorry, I won't be posting new pics of me right now. Maybe next entry. I need more energy (eyes twitching due to sleepyness) to load the pics. However, I want to show some interesting videos which I found in youtube.My new </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/918804053476464075/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=918804053476464075' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/918804053476464075'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/918804053476464075'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/my-new-passion.html' title='Music is my life...my soul..my life ..k, said it twice already.'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-354007118218762982</id><published>2009-01-17T06:07:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-17T06:13:12.417+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>Pimp my blog</title><summary type='text'>Yes, my blog has been pimped by Oon. The background image and the scrolling thing I did it la...well, sort of. secret..shhhhhh... I'm happy with my blog :&gt;.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/354007118218762982/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=354007118218762982' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/354007118218762982'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/354007118218762982'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/pimp-my-blog.html' title='Pimp my blog'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-6303481587091268582</id><published>2009-01-17T04:06:00.027+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-26T17:11:46.775+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><title type='text'>January birthdays</title><summary type='text'>2nd Jan : Zuliana's 28th Birthday and Suhaila's baby was born 14 Jan : Mom's 65th Birthday12 Jan : Fazlin's Birthday updated 2nd time!16 Jan : Effa's 28th Birthday29th Jan : Pah's Birthday updated31st Jan : B's BirthdayAnyone I miss out?14 January 2009We celebrated Mom's bday at Hock Sen a.k.a the second kitchen. This was her Bday cake.Inik Empina, Mom and Inik Ramin.Aki. No, he didn't drink </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/6303481587091268582/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=6303481587091268582' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6303481587091268582'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/6303481587091268582'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/january-birthdays.html' title='January birthdays'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SXFYp1zeqFI/AAAAAAAAAJ0/LI-M841D04Q/s72-c/cake.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-5321225892148534462</id><published>2009-01-12T03:17:00.009+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-12T03:54:55.721+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>Family pictures PART I</title><summary type='text'>Today, as I was about to start doing my work, I looked through some pictures in my machine. It was pictures of my family members. Let's start with exhibit 1.1. Okay, this is Sydney.yes, she's a part of the family, too. She just turned 2 on the 28th December 2008. She was named after the place where I did my Master's.2. From left, Dad, Uncle Nick, Mak Yi and Mom. I can't remember when I took this </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/5321225892148534462/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=5321225892148534462' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5321225892148534462'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/5321225892148534462'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/family-pictures-part-i.html' title='Family pictures PART I'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SWqb22GMbgI/AAAAAAAAAFE/iux4DV4Hm2A/s72-c/Picture+016+copy.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-2624976379723588969</id><published>2009-01-09T18:07:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-09T18:14:02.606+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>Post by Sebugey</title><summary type='text'>I came across Sebugey's blog, thanks to Maria. She had posted several pictures of Aba Jang when he was in his happier days and also pictures of his funeral. I hope one day that I can personally thank her for this.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/2624976379723588969/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=2624976379723588969' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/2624976379723588969'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/2624976379723588969'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/post-by-sebugey.html' title='Post by Sebugey'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-3549040626535056449</id><published>2009-01-09T16:18:00.010+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-09T18:07:01.410+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Travel'/><title type='text'>This blog is...</title><summary type='text'>Written after my uncle passed away. I have another blog but I closed it down. I'm still figuring out why I did that, though. I'll write about it once I figure it out. No, this blog is not only to write about my uncle, it will progress to other things soon. My life has been blessed with wonderful things. 27 years old, and I have achieved "quite" high in the academic field. Why quite?I have another</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/3549040626535056449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=3549040626535056449' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3549040626535056449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/3549040626535056449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/this-blog-is.html' title='This blog is...'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_kzaUy9XMcW8/SWd1vVPXpLI/AAAAAAAAAE0/BCL8oLDOsV0/s72-c/047.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-1928648500639717119</id><published>2009-01-06T07:33:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-09T16:10:28.130+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>Life after death</title><summary type='text'>I've been searching in the Internet about what will we become after we die?Do we actually go to heaven as an award for eternal happiness, or hell as an eternal damnation? or, we end our life just like that. Like a robot that just ran out of energy..as materialists would say.Some articles mentioned that we will become spirits and we will then live in the spirit world. The world is called astral </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/1928648500639717119/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=1928648500639717119' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1928648500639717119'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/1928648500639717119'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/life-after-death.html' title='Life after death'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5063217756082227717.post-7322720532651478703</id><published>2009-01-01T11:44:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-01-10T16:41:19.755+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Aba Jang'/><title type='text'>Happy New Year 2009</title><summary type='text'>A new year...another 365 days...another 52 weeks...8 days since my Aba Jang passed away.24th December 2008We cleaned up the house to prepare for Xmas.Tree... checked; Presents... checked; Cakes... checked; Drinks... checked; everything looked fine. After all that, I karaoked a few songs for about an hour and then after that I painted the kitchen wall with Dad and Sindy. I didn't think of him...By</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/feeds/7322720532651478703/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5063217756082227717&amp;postID=7322720532651478703' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7322720532651478703'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5063217756082227717/posts/default/7322720532651478703'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://aseffjay.blogspot.com/2009/01/happy-new-year-2009.html' title='Happy New Year 2009'/><author><name>Woman IN PinK</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
